I heard you talk about not forgiving someone being like taking poison and expecting the other person to get sick, but you don’t know how my partner wronged me! What he did was unforgivable, I can’t just let it go. Is there a shamanic way you can tell me that will help?
A wrong is like a snake bite. We didn’t want it to happen but we can’t do anything to change the fact that it did. What we can do, is decide how much we will let it poison us, and for how long.
In holding on to unforgiveness you are still giving your power to your ex, funneling energy in his direction, instead of to your own projects. Is that what you want?
In continuing to hold on to the pain of this wrong, you are feeding it, keeping it alive, making it grow.
The longer you allow yourself to focus on the awful thing that happened, the longer you will be hurt by it, and the deeper that hurt will go.
Eventually the poison from that wound could taint all of your relationships. Is this what you want?
Forgiving him doesn’t mean you are ok with what happened, it means setting yourself free, taking back your power, regaining control of your life.
This is one of my favorite books. I reckon it is the best book ever written on forgiveness, it’s a Children’s Parable adapted from Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch.
It helped me forgive everyone in my life. I’m excited to share it with you. Please feel free to share it with your loved ones.
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